Friday, September 27, 2013

the last few weeks.

Wow, were does time go. The last month has been a emotional, mentally and physical roller coaster. But it has also changed the way I view life. Let's start with the week before we became parent's.

The 25th of August I had been having contractions all morning and wasn't feeling well and was timing my contractions so I had gone to Labor and Delivery at 5 that morning. They kept me for a few hours and then sent us home with me on strict bed rest. They told me to call and make a follow up with my OB and so I made it for the next day. I had been having upper right quadrant pain and so since I was already spilling protein in my urine they decided to check my liver functions. They drew blood at my appt and sent me on my way. I got a call that afternoon from my nurse and she said my liver enzymes were high and that my OB wanted an ultrasound done of my liver and then after my ultrasound I was to go back to L&D for my FFN (Fetal fibronectin) screen and lab work. Both my FFN and lab work came back good and they sent me home. I went home and relaxed afterwards. The next day my BP was rising even higher and I put in a call to my nurse and she wanted me to come in so I did. My liver functions were continuing to go up. My appt that day was at 3:30 and so my mom went with me. By 6:45 that night I had received a call from my OB and he said to stop the procardia that night and he was going to call the high risk OB the next morning. I got up the next day and was still having right upper quadrant pain and so I had a few things to get done and so I went and got my errands done. I got home and was about to relax when my OB called and he was like we need to admit you and so I called my mom and had her go to the local hospital with me. They admitted me got an IV started, got blood work done and made sure the boys weren't in any type of distress and had me on monitors for a few hours. They sent me to the other floor to keep me on hospital bed rest. By the next morning my liver functions were still rising and the plan was to just watch me. Around 5:30pm they came and drew more blood and my OB called the high risk and he didn't answer his phone or texts from my OB. My OB decided to call the hospital my high risk is at and they said since I was in such bad shape to send me down, They sent me down at 10:30 that night. I got to the hospital at around 1:30am and was put on contraction monitor's and then my angel Dr. Breniman came in and checked me and I was in active labor. That Saturday morning August 31st, 2013 our boys entered the world via emergency C-section. Jacob Alan entered the world at 5:14 am and Joe Robert entered in at 5:15 am. Both boys weighed in at 3 pounds and 1 ounce each. They have come along way and still have quite a way to come before we will take them home. Some thing I have learned about being a premie mom is that this isn't a sprint it's a marathon. Some days are better than ever.

Thursday, August 22, 2013

week 28 update

Week 28: Eggplant

Average size: 13.6 -14.8 inches, 1.5-2.2 lb.
Immune system is preparing for the outside world...


How far along are you? 28 weeks
Total weight gain? 16 pounds
Maternity Clothes? yes, all the time
Stretch Marks? yes
Sleep? tired all the time
Best Moment of the week? taking our maternity pictures
Miss anything? Nope
Movement? Yes, their constantly active
Food Cravings? cheese, fruit and water
Anything making you queasy or sick? Nope
Gender prediction? 2 happy and healthy boys
Labor signs? a few contractions here and their
Symptoms? exhausted, breast soreness, back pain, swelling
Belly button in or out? out
Wedding rings off or on? off
Happy or Moody most of the time? Happy
Looking forward to? my 1st baby shower this weekend.
Next Appt? today in about an hour or so.


Thursday, August 15, 2013

week 27 update :)

Week 27: Rutabaga


Average size: 13.6-14.8 inches, 1.5-2.2 lb.

Baby’s showing brain activity…



How far along are you? 27 weeks 
Total weight gain? 14 pounds
Maternity Clothes? yes
Stretch Marks? yes
Sleep? exhausted all the time
Best Moment of the week? Getting approved for WIC and maternity pictures tomorrow
Miss anything? Nope
Movement? Yes, all the time
Food Cravings? Water, and mc. donalds
Anything making you queasy or sick? The nasty glucose stuff :(
Gender prediction? 2 happy and healthy boys
Labor signs? a few contractions here and their but nothing major
Symptoms? exhausted, sore boobs, insomnia, going to the rest room constantly
Belly button in or out? out
Wedding rings off or on? Off
Happy or Moody most of the time? Excited yet super emotional since their are still on many unknowns right now
Looking forward to? our maternity pictures tomorrow 
Next Appt? Monday morning since we are doing weekly appts.

Thursday, August 8, 2013

26 week update :)

Week 26: Lettuce


Average size: 13.6-14.8 inches, 1.5-2.2 lb.
Eyes are forming and will soon start to open


How far along are you? 26 weeks :) that means only 9 weeks at the most to go until my c-section date 
Total weight gain? 14 pounds
Maternity Clothes? yes, all the time
Stretch Marks? yep
Sleep? good except for getting up a few times at night to use the restroom
Best Moment of the week? having my older sister here
Miss anything? Nope
Movement? Yes, these boys are active all the time
Food Cravings? milk and water
Anything making you queasy or sick? Nope, thank goodness
Gender prediction? 2 happy and healthy boys
Labor signs? a few contractions :(
Symptoms? a few contractions, exhausted all the time, breasts are sore, back hurts all the time
Belly button in or out? Out
Wedding rings off or on? Off
Happy or Moody most of the time? Happy
Looking forward to? My maternity pictures next weekend and then my first baby shower on the 24th
Next Appt? Monday for my GTT, fetal fibronectin screen, and steroid shots to help mature the boys lungs.

Thursday, August 1, 2013

week 25 update

Week 25: Cauliflower

Average size: 13.6-14.8 inches, 1.5-2.2 lb.
Baby knows which way is up and which is down now…


How far along are you? 25 weeks 
Total weight gain? 6 pounds 
Maternity Clothes? yes, all the time
Stretch Marks? yes, on my legs and belly
Sleep? always tired
Best Moment of the week? one of my good friends getting her first big BFP from IVF :)
Miss anything? Nope
Movement? Yes, all the time
Food Cravings? water and milk and cherries
Anything making you queasy or sick? Nope
Gender prediction? 2 happy and healthy boys
Labor signs? Yes, I actually just got out of the hospital this morning I was in for pre-term labor, contractions were 1.5-2 minutes apart
Symptoms? contractions, sore breasts, feet swollen, exhausted all the time, rib pain, back pain
Belly button in or out? out
Wedding rings off or on? off
Happy or Moody most of the time? nervous, emotional and scared that these boys will arrive early than predicted. We are starting steroid shots next appt to mature lungs
Looking forward to? seeing my older sister tomarrow
Next Appt? August 12th and then going every week.


Thursday, July 25, 2013

week 24 update :)

Week 24: Canteloupe


Average size: 10.5 inches ***, 12.7 oz.
Nipples are sprouting, and face is fully formed!


How far along are you? 24 weeks, also known as V-day :)
Total weight gain? 6 pounds
Maternity Clothes? all the time, I am mostly living in dresses now
Stretch Marks? yep, on my growing belly
Sleep? good
Best Moment of the week? seeing 2 amazing IVF buddies and catching up
Miss anything? Nope
Movement? Yep, the boys have been kicking me everyday this week
Food Cravings? Nothing really
Anything making you queasy or sick? Nope
Gender prediction? 2 happy and healthy boys
Labor signs? Nope
Symptoms? Braxton hicks contractions, back pain, sore breasts
Belly button in or out? out
Wedding rings off or on? Off
Happy or Moody most of the time? Happy
Looking forward to? Seeing my boys on Monday :)
Next Appt? Monday for my monthly ultrasound, cervix check and seeing my OB

Thursday, July 18, 2013

week 23 update :)

Week 23: Grapefruit


Average size: 10.5 inches ***, 12.7 oz.
Baby’s listening to your voice and heartbeat in there…


How far along are you? 23 weeks 
Total weight gain? 6 pounds :)
Maternity Clothes? yep, just bought a few dresses
Stretch Marks? yep
Sleep? exhausted all the time
Best Moment of the week? getting to see my babies
Miss anything? nope
Movement? yep, their kicks are getting stronger
Food Cravings? water, 
Anything making you queasy or sick? some stuff
Gender prediction? 2 happy and healthy boys
Labor signs? kinda, had some contractions but thank goodness they were able to stop them.
Symptoms? RLP, back soreness, sore breasts 
Belly button in or out? out
Wedding rings off or on? off
Happy or Moody most of the time? excited
Looking forward to? Girls weekend this weekend and saying "thank you" to our IVF doctor's tomarrow without them this journey wouldn't be possible
Next Appt? The 29th and get to see our boys before my appt